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What happens when you try to become like others?

Many people will influence you with their speeches, Be YOURSELF!!, "don't be like others". I hope they never told you WHY?

In today's world, We get attracted very soon by somebody else's life. See!! he got a car in his teenage, that kid is a millionaire, she went abroad and earns in dollars, That person has a cozy lifestyle while I am sitting at home struggling with a job that only pays me in thousands.

Now the question is, ARE YOU HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU ARE DOING? If you are happy, why are you even interested in the crap, What others are doing? 

Do you know, What happens to you when you try to become like others?

When you introduce yourself like someone else to somebody, you lie to yourself and lie to others. Now you might be thinking ..... WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL IN LYING?? Buddy, the deal you are making here is of yourself. How many lies are you gonna tell? And most importantly, How many will you remember?

One day in this process of lying, you yourself will forget, who you are and what did you tell?. The lies are no more lies now, they become baggage for you. Absolutely, none but you will have to carry that baggage. IS IT FINE FOR YOU, TO LOSE YOUR OWN PERSONALITY? 

If you are influenced by someone else, Take inspiration and modify the inspiration according to you. If your influencer reads at 4 in the morning, you don't have to wake up at 4 and read. Read when you feel like it when it gives you happiness & joy or do not even read if you don't like

Make your own identity strong and profound. Just know, Whoever you are, You are UNIQUE in your own way

Be proud of yourself 😊😊
 

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